Hackensack, NJ Amicable Divorce Attorneys

Divorce Doesn’t Have to Be a Battle. There’s a Peaceful Way! Trust Family Law Mediation, Powered by Unblinded to Help. 

Mediation offers an alternative to a toxic divorce fight – instead, it’s a peaceful, cost-effective way to resolve issues cooperatively. Our experienced Hackensack amicable divorce attorneys guide you through a structured process that prioritizes collaboration, confidentiality, and control over your future.

Key Takeaways:

• Mediation fosters cooperation – Instead of a judge deciding for you, mediation allows you and your spouse to create personalized solutions.
• It’s faster, cheaper, and private – Mediation costs less, moves quicker than court, and keeps your discussions confidential.
• A clear, guided process – From the initial consultation to final court approval, our structured mediation process ensures transparency, fairness, and legal compliance. 

There are many reasons why divorcing couples look for a non-adversarial ending to their marriage. Maybe you and your spouse just weren’t working anymore; there isn’t a ton of conflict, but you just want to go your separate ways. Or maybe you can’t stand each other, but you have kids you both adore and you are both good parents, and you want the process to be as quick and painless for all of you as possible.

Whatever your reasons for seeking out a lawyer who can guide you through an amicable divorce are, you’ve come to the right place! At Family Law Mediation, Powered by Unblinded, our Hackensack amicable divorce attorneys focus on providing an alternative to traditional divorce litigation for couples throughout New Jersey. You may not know much about mediation or the benefits that mediation can offer, but trust us (and our extensive legal knowledge and experience, as well as many client reviews!) when we say that as long as you don’t have a special circumstance like abuse or addiction, mediation IS the answer.

Let our team get you through divorce, without the drama. Call today to get your questions answered and take your next steps!

How Mediation Fosters an Amicable Split

Mediation helps you get divorced with less conflict. Here’s how:

• It promotes collaboration – Divorce mediation involves you and your spouse working together. You are guided by a neutral third-party mediator, who is typically an attorney but who does not represent either you or your spouse’s interests, or take sides! The mediator facilitates a process where you and your spouse work out the issues involved in your divorce and come to (if the mediation is successful) a mutually agreeable divorce settlement agreement, which is then presented to the court to approve.

In litigation, it’s you versus your spouse. In mediation, it’s you with your spouse. The goal isn’t to cast blame, to promote your interests over theirs, or to “win”. The goal is to come up with a solution that’s better for everyone in the long-run (a true win-win). When you start from that perspective, and you have our Hackensack amicable divorce attorneys (mediators) constantly reminding you of it, there’s less fighting!

• It allows for custom solutions – When you go to court, you’ll be handed a mostly standard court order by a judge that you and your family have to abide by. Because there’s not much room for flexibility, you might fight much harder to avoid a standard order that you don’t like (understandably so); all of your energy goes to fighting for your ideal outcome. 

In mediation, there is all the room you need for creative, flexible arrangements that meet both you and your spouse’s needs. The sky’s the limit, with some exceptions, for what your divorce arrangement can look like. You can put more of your energy into coming up with creative compromise rather than fighting against your spouse.

• It’s confidential – If you and your spouse do fight, you don’t have to air your dirty laundry in public, to a judge and others in a courtroom. You also don’t have to fight to impress anyone or make your spouse look a certain way. In a mediation, it’s just you, your spouse, and the mediator. You can calm down. Everything that is said is private and confidential. You can express your true feelings and true desires without worry that anything you say will be used against you later. 

Mediation also offers many other benefits – it

• Costs less than litigation 

• Moves more quickly than litigation

• Puts you in the driver’s seat of decision making – you have much more control over the final outcome 

How Does Mediation Work?

If you’re new to the mediation process, here’s what to expect when working with our firm.

Step 1 – Free Initial Consultation

The process begins with a no-cost consultation, where our skilled mediators will walk you through the next steps and help determine if mediation is the right path for your situation. While meditation is beneficial for many couples, it may not be the best option if your spouse is unwilling to cooperate, dishonest, or abusive. We will help you assess your options.

Step 2 – Orientation and Mediation Agreement

If both you and your spouse choose to move forward, we will hold an orientation session explaining the roles and responsibilities involved. At this stage, both of you will sign a formal Agreement to Mediate, which establishes the framework for the process.

Step 3 – Gathering Necessary Information

As neutral facilitators, our Hackensack amicable divorce attorneys will assist you both in collecting important financial and legal documents. This step is crucial as it ensures that all parties are well-informed, making negotiations more productive. We emphasize openness and transparency to help create fair and balanced agreements.

Step 4 – Mediation Sessions

During these sessions, we will guide discussions on key aspects of your divorce, such as asset distribution, child custody, and spousal support. Our mediators use effective communication and conflict resolution strategies to help you and your spouse voice concerns and find common ground. Depending on the complexity of your situation, multiple sessions may be required.

Step 5 – Drafting the Agreement

Once both parties have reached a consensus, the mediator will draft a written agreement that details all the terms of your divorce settlement. We take care to ensure that the final document reflects your mutual interests and meets legal standards.

Step 6 – Legal Review and Finalization

It’s important for each of you to have your own attorney review the agreement so you fully understand your rights and obligations. As neutral facilitators, we cannot provide legal representation to either party, but we encourage legal counsel to ensure that your interests are fully protected.

Step 7 – Court Filing and Final Decree

The final step is submitting the agreement to the court for approval. Once approved, the court will issue the final decree, officially dissolving your marriage. To make this process as smooth as possible, our team handles the court submission on your behalf, minimizing your stress and workload.

Why Choose Our Hackensack Amicable Divorce Attorneys?

Our mission at Family Law Mediation, Powered by Unblinded, is to provide an unmatched experience in divorce mediation. That means, in part, empowering you with all of the information and support you need, as well as guiding you step by step through the process. Our mediators have worked as attorneys and judges, and have spent decades in the family law court system. We’ve been in nasty divorce battles, and we are confident that this is the best, most peaceful, least stressful way forward for you, your spouse, and your children!

Call our compassionate Hackensack amicable divorce attorneys today to schedule your free initial consultation and get started!